A wise man once said, “The only constant is change”, and sadly for us, romance is included. History has proved time and time again that puppy love is not capable of surviving a marriage. Its future fate is not death, but more of paralysis.
Long gone are the days of hot, steamy and dirty talks, for you are left with nothing but house chores, kids and financial responsibilities. Arab men have been guilty as charged when it comes to post-marital transformations in the following relationship departments.
When young and in love, holding hands can be as exciting as making love
Suddenly, quality time means social media or anything that doesn’t require communication
“You are the only one for me”: seven little words engraved in every Arab woman’s heart
At least until he meets his second wife
A guy in love promises a woman a hot and steamy world, endless love making and infinite ecstasy
The only thing that is infinite after marriage is excuses to be around his best friend
Before marriage, a guy is willing to laugh at his girlfriend’s jokes and make a fool out of himself
After tying the knot, the only thing he finds funny is his wife’s weight
What used to drive him insane…
Now is not even on his radar
What used to be ripped and chiseled…
Later turns into male pregnancy
A love message changes from this…
SPENDING TIME AT HOME
Remember those movie nights?
Well, you can forget about them, as he starts an affair with his Play Station
Rarely does a man promise to help around the house…
But those who do flip the hell out when reality checks
He might fake interest in your crap
But later on, he can’t hide it anymore
A boyfriend lavishes you with the most expensive shit you will ever come across, sweeping you off your feet
A husband will pick up a calculator before he gets you that one bag you have been dreaming of
His wardrobe completely transforms from this…
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