Was Nelly Right to Forgive Tarek in Lam Shamsiya?
While Lam Shamsiya has us all stressing about Youssef and his heartbreaking struggle with child sexual assault, the show is packed with more compelling dilemmas. One of them? The tangled mess between Tarek and Nelly. And the question we are all asking: Was Nelly Right to Forgive Tarek in Lam Shamsiya?
The Tarek and Nelly Dilemma
Tarek wasn’t just unfaithful; he was ready to walk away entirely. He cheated on his wife, Nelly, with his coworker, Nihal, and even promised her a future together in Dubai. His plan? Leave Nelly and their kids behind in Egypt.
Not a one-time thing and not a spur-of-the-moment mistake, Tarek went as far as to propose to Nihal.
But now, he’s having second thoughts. He distanced himself from Nihal and begged Nelly to take him back. He apologized for his mistakes and is ready to work on his marriage wholeheartedly. So, does he really deserve the second chance Nelly gave him?
Tarek Blamed Nelly for His Affair
The moment Nelly found out about the cheating, Tarek flipped the script. Instead of owning up to it, he made it her fault. He claimed she didn’t satisfy his needs.
Then, he doubled down. He lied about when the affair started, saying it only happened after Nelly accused Wessam of harassing Youssef. An accusation that led to Tarek attacking Wessam and landing in jail. According to him, he only turned to Nihal for solace after Nelly ruined his life. And this is far from the truth.
He Was Building a New Life, She Was Holding Theirs Together
While Tarek was off vacationing with Nihal and fantasizing about his new life, Nelly wasn’t just raising their child—she was also raising his son, Youssef, as her own.
So, while he was out there acting single and meeting his soon-to-be-in-laws, she was playing mom to two kids and dealing with Youssef’s trauma.
Is Nelly Partially to Blame?
At the same time, is Nelly naive to think Tarek would just be okay with no intimacy for years?
He was never forceful with Nelly and supported her to help her build a family. So, can his cheating be seen as trying to protect her from physical pain and himself from emotional frustration? Was he wrong for seeking that connection elsewhere, or was this an inevitable outcome?
Can She Leave If It Means Losing Youssef?
If Nelly chooses to divorce, she’s not just leaving Tarek—she’s also leaving Youssef, his son, whom she sees as her own.
He would either live with Tarek or his biological mother, meaning Nelly could lose him entirely. If ending the marriage means losing your child, can you really go through with it?
No Right or Wrong Answer
Usually, cheating is the end of the road. But Lam Shamsiya gives us a situation that is not that simple.
The characters are layered. The situation is messy. And for once, there’s no clear-cut answer.
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